Let
Go of the Guilt
by Debora Myers
Life has
always been a challenge for us humans. In addition to the aspects of life
that we have little control over, say, the illness that has invaded your
family’s life or the fender bender you were in and just found out your
spouse forgot to pay the insurance, we seem to create more misery for ourselves
by adding feelings of guilt to the picture.
Life is difficult enough without
extra misery caused by our silly insecurities. Needlesstosay unnecessary
guilt is not helpful. It only adds that much more pressure to our already
overburdened lives. When we are feeling bad, guilty or unhappy, we tend to
withdraw and have little to give back to our families and especially our
mates.
We can’t keep the fire burning
if we’re over-occupied with bashing ourselves for not being perfect
wonder women.
We can do wonders for our families
and ourselves by reminding ourselves that we needn’t be perfect. Take
the pressure off. Stop volunteering for everybody that needs your help. Choose
one charity instead of six to be involved in and give some nurturing time
to you and yours. Your family will notice and enjoy a happier healthier
woman!
So be kind to yourself. Tell the
guilt to take a hike and concentrate on a slow and steady climb of improvement,
rather than making 64 Instant New Years Resolutions that would be almost
impossible to live up to.
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